Trust Me to Trust You
Having a person who aides me in trusting myself encourages me to trust others. I see no flaws to this part of our dynamic, only success.
Life of A Kinky Wife
Built from experience. Designed for practice
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Consent and Kink in Public
While BDSM may not be an exclusively sexual concept, there is usually a sexual edge to it. Therefore, when you engage in BDSM acts in public, you are exposing others to sexual activities.
Scheduling Time for Intimacy
Intimacy is a feeling of mutual openness, vulnerability, and closeness experienced between two (but sometimes more) people. It is a connection that makes us feel like another accepts us and does not judge. It is invaluable to a healthy social life, a lasting relationship, and how you feel about yourself.
Using Ritual to Reestablish D/s Connection
Rituals don’t have to be big elaborate ordeals for them to work as desired. Personally, I think it’s best if they aren’t. And although long rituals and ceremonies have their place in the kink world, sometimes keeping it simple is the best course of action.
On-Line Lovin’
When we form friendships, all we are doing is creating a state of mutual trust and support between people. This doesn’t have to be in-person to have value, it just has to feel real
Drawing the Lines of Surrender
there’s a part of D/s that can be so much more than rules and discipline, scenes, and kinky fuckery.
Personal Growth-Mind, Body and Soul
I spend time on me each day. I used to think it was a selfish thing, but have since learned, you can’t fill another bucket if yours is empty.
Voyeur Voyage
I remember staring, mesmerised as the woman's breasts bounced when she walked, swayed as she was thrust into, hard and deep. My face mimicking her expression of bliss as she climbed a peak only she could see.
Words that Define Us
I try not to use terms that label people in my life. When explaining a person's qualities, I don’t highlight skin colour, gender, or religion. But sometimes the labels we hold are reasons to celebrate and not words to devalue.
Fake it ’til you Make it
Nobody can go through life with 100% certainty in anything, but if you prepare yourself, just a little bit, you don’t need to be certain, just daring.