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Love Beyond Labels — Part 3
January 13, 2025
Laura Embraces her New Identity and Desires Love Beyond Labels – Part 1 Love Beyond Labels- Part 2 Laura feels…
Love beyond Labels – Part 2
December 18, 2024
She drinks in Eloise’s beauty in the scattered evening light. Once more, Laura can’t decide whether Eloise is gorgeous or cute, but she doesn’t want to look away, so she continues her open perusal, unabashed.
Love Beyond Labels – Part 1
December 18, 2024
By the fifteenth minute, Laura is sorely aware her face has slipped into what her husband had once called “resting bitch face”, but she can hardly help it. Her first date in over twenty years and here she is, alone, waiting for it to begin.
A Magic Word
February 12, 2024
I often wish for a magic word. One that would tell you.
That I want to be touched, tamed.
My Wife takes My Girlfriend for Dinner
January 23, 2024
She asked for this. My wife. To take my girlfriend for dinner. She says she wants to get to know her. I’m sure she does.
Sometimes…
January 14, 2024
Sometimes it’s been a while. A while since you’ve been in the mood. A while since you’ve been touched, or touched yourself.

