Proudly Serving in Submission

Kinky Advent 2020- Day 12

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We’ve reached the halfway mark of Kinky Advent 2020. Only 12 more kinky days to go and Christmas will be upon us. Today was about service and being proud in and of our submission. I take a lot of pride in my acts of service for Mister K, so today was a joyful event for us both.

Are you being served?

Being Saturday, it is good timing that Day 12 from The SafeworD/s Club is service. Because its a slower paced day, Mister K and I like to take advantage of the leisurely pace. This allows us to have formal protocol days, at least once a week.

While I spend a good portion of my days completing tasks that will serve Mister K and our dynamic or our family, I really enjoy active submission. Acts that he and I can see directly and are forced to acknowledge. Being told I’m a good girl, or being thanked with a smile or deep kiss makes me happy beyond comparison.

With service in mind, I started Mister K’ s day with a massage to wake him up and assisted him with grooming. I tried hard to anticipate his needs throughout the day (consciously, not as part of a routine), and think I did a good job if his attentiveness is anything to judge by.

Maybe today will lead to more formal days where I can be fully in my element. A girl can hope.

Proud Mary

The Submissive Guide‘s Day 12 prompt is Proud Mary, where we’re tasked with shouting the pride we have in our submission from the rooftops. I didn’t go quite that far, but I’ll share some of my thoughts on the subject.

There hasn’t been a moment where I wasn’t proud to be Mister K’s submissive. Who he is as a man makes me proud on it’s own, but who he pushed me to become, amplifies that to an indescribable degree. I don’t always get things right, but he always encourages me to keep going.

I haven’t always been proud of being submissive and ignored and fought it for a long time. But since Mister K and I have fully embraced D/s and worked to maintain our dynamic, those thoughts have disappeared. I take pride in the comfort I now find in my role, but of course one can never be too relaxed, that’s when Dom’s change things up.

I understand now that its not for everyone and you can’t make someone what they are not. Knowing who I am and being given the chance to achieve my full potential is the greatest cause of pride in my submission. Even on days when I mess everything up, I can still hold onto that.

Day 13 is about things we love, and keeping the flame of submission lit. Sounds enlightening.

Until then, can I offer you a drink?

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