Built from experience. Designed for practice
when talking of aftercare, we think of it happening directly after sex or a BDSM scene, but occasionally the care that’s needed is required at a later date. Each person and scene will be different and therefore so will be the appropriate type of care.
Having a person who aides me in trusting myself encourages me to trust others. I see no flaws to this part of our dynamic, only success.
I regularly spent every second Saturday as a service sub at my local community's Femdom events. While most of these were training events, some were play parties, others just social get-togethers. These events gave me some of the best training I have received in my meager years as a submissive.
I know that I will never sell this house, for all the memories it holds, and all the ones still to come. Mum wanted Grams jewelry, and I guess that’s for the best, some heirlooms have to be carefully passed on.
BDSM has encouraged me to speak up, to stand up, to shout out. It’s shown me that we are all equal and if we learn to talk, to listen and trust in the steps, true equality is found