Making a List, Checking it Twice

Kinky Advent 2020-Day 6

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Today was all about lists, or rather listing things you love and times and activities that make you feel the most submissive. It was an insightful day, but Mister K and I still left room for some fun. I must say he’s been a good sport and very supportive of my Kinkmas celebration. That’s just one of the many reasons I love Him.

6 Things

At the SafeworD/s Club, today was about listing 6 things about yourself, or someone/thing you love.  I chose to list 6 things I love about my D/s dynamic.

One:

I can be me. My thoughts and feeling are always taken into consideration, even if I think they’re superficial. I never have to question if I will be heard.

Two:

Mister K always encourages me to be the best I can be in order to continue moving forward in growth. He knows that by helping me in that growth, I become empowered to be who I am, naturally.

Three:

The level of trust I feel for Mister K gives me an incredible sense of comfort. I know that I can and sometimes do put myself and my wellbeing in his hands, with the knowledge he will do whatever it takes to keep me safe, healthy, and secure. There’s indescribable freedom in that.

Four:

The anticipation that is created in a D/s relationship has taught me a new level of appreciation for delayed gratification. For as much as I spend time waiting, it’s always worth it.

Five:

There’s an intensity in our connection that wasn’t there before. We spent more time being consciously aware of each other, and each other’s needs. It’s created a sense of harmony, in more than just our words.

Six:

I am living out my fantasies with a supportive partner by my side. I know Mister K will never push me too far, but also that he will do his best to be who I need him to be.

Awareness

Day 6 on the Submissive Guide Advent Calendar was: Awareness. The question was “When are you most aware of being owned/submissive?”

There was no need to list 6 times, I know exactly when I feel most submissive, so does Mister K. We make time for it 3 times each day. Once, first thing in the morning. The second when he returns home from work and lastly, right before bed. This is the time when I kneel at his feet In surrender. Nothing needs to be said, but the power exchange feels like a living, tangible thing.

Tomorrow is about staying warm and random acts of kindness. Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy. Kind of like I think about what happened after Mister K helped take this picture 🙂

See you then!

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