If I am doing my job right, I should know to stop before you’ve had enough. It’s a great form of protection, but it shouldn’t be your first source
Category: Let’s Talk About…
In Dependence
That’s what true independence is, isn’t it? Freedom. Freedom to choose.
A Symbol, A Token of a force set in Motion
. My submission to him does not depend on a piece of jewelry, a token of our dynamic. It is given because I know I am his and he is mine. Even when everything seems to be failing, I can hold this firm and know it is the truth.
Finding Feminism in BDSM
BDSM has encouraged me to speak up, to stand up, to shout out. It’s shown me that we are all equal and if we learn to talk, to listen and trust in the steps, true equality is found
D/scipline
Discipline is defined as the practice of training people to follow rules or a code of behaviour, using punishment to correct disobedience. While that easily depicts what discipline is in many forms, it’s only a thin layer of a very heavy topic.
BDSM with a side of Sex
When you look at the definition for the acronym BDSM, I can see where there may be confusion about whether or not it’s a sexual thing.
Pursuing Pleasure
D/s and BDSM have brought much enjoyment to my life. It has become a way for me to fit into myself, to become who I am, wholly. And there can be no bigger pleasure than living a life that you want.
How I Strengthened my Sex Drive
I needed to find a way out. A way to reawaken my much needed libido. I talked to my doctor and he reminded me that the best tool you have is your brain. “Re-wire that”, he said, “and the rest will follow.” I’m glad he’s not a pill pusher, or a man to just brush it off. As it turns out, he was right.
Sacrifice and Service
For each individual, submission, dominance, and service will mean something different. But for each of us the acts that we participate in meet a need that we can not get elsewhere. It’s important to show appreciation for the service we’re given. Sometimes in our relationships, we make sacrifices to meet the needs of our other halves, and those sacrifices should not be taken for granted.
A Case for Lace
I love lace. I love the feel on my body, the way it makes me feel sexier, just sliding it over my skin. I love how it looks, giving me a feminine edge but loads of sex appeal. Just thinking about wearing it makes me feel more womanly, pliable, and sensual.
