If we take the time to talk with our partners and be honest about what we need and desire, foreplay or after-play simply becomes play.
Category: KW’s Musings
Aftercare-More than an Afterthought
when talking of aftercare, we think of it happening directly after sex or a BDSM scene, but occasionally the care that’s needed is required at a later date. Each person and scene will be different and therefore so will be the appropriate type of care.
Tickling as Training
I’ve always been ticklish. So much so that in the past it has been a problem. The guy I dated during my senior years of high-school disliked that I would burst out laughing at the faintest brush against my skin.
Jars Full of Gratitude
The jars are for your first assignment. Each day at the end of our session, I want you to write three things you’re grateful for. They can be anything.
Mister K Comes to Play for International Men’s Day
As it is International Men’s Day, I thought it would be a great time to introduce Mister K. He spends so much time on the opposite side of the camera, that you never get to see him.
Trust Me to Trust You
Having a person who aides me in trusting myself encourages me to trust others. I see no flaws to this part of our dynamic, only success.
Hot and Cold
Mister K told me to find something “hot” to wear, so he could get some pictures of me out in the cold. By the time I got dressed and then undressed again, the snowflakes were much smaller
He Loves Me, I Love Him Not
I guess that’s the issue with unrequited love. We believe it’s completely non-existent when it could be that we just don’t recognize love in all its forms.
Turn on my Desire
The process to turn me on, to get my motor running is one that requires care and diligence. It involves a strict course of study that most cannot hope to receive a degree from. He knows that to keep me here, I need to surrender. To him, to his dominance, and his desire.
Consent and Kink in Public
While BDSM may not be an exclusively sexual concept, there is usually a sexual edge to it. Therefore, when you engage in BDSM acts in public, you are exposing others to sexual activities.
