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Kinky Advent 2020-Day 6 See the other posts in this project here. Today was all about lists, or rather listing things you love and times and activities that make you feel the most submissive. It was an insightful day, but…
when talking of aftercare, we think of it happening directly after sex or a BDSM scene, but occasionally the care that’s needed is required at a later date. Each person and scene will be different and therefore so will be the appropriate type of care.
I’ve always been ticklish. So much so that in the past it has been a problem. The guy I dated during my senior years of high-school disliked that I would burst out laughing at the faintest brush against my skin.
Having a person who aides me in trusting myself encourages me to trust others. I see no flaws to this part of our dynamic, only success.
Lingerie is for everyone, no matter your gender, sexual identity or preference. Wear what makes you feel good. I know I will
Rituals don’t have to be big elaborate ordeals for them to work as desired. Personally, I think it’s best if they aren’t. And although long rituals and ceremonies have their place in the kink world, sometimes keeping it simple is the best course of action.
“Yes, Sir!” I said much louder than necessary, scrambling to lay on his lap. I felt awkward there, but he repositioned me and suddenly I was quite comfortable. His hand ran over my smooth flesh, soft and gentle, grabbing a hand full and letting go. He pushed my cheeks together and pulled them apart, letting them jiggle in their natural way.
there’s a part of D/s that can be so much more than rules and discipline, scenes, and kinky fuckery.
I try not to use terms that label people in my life. When explaining a person's qualities, I don’t highlight skin colour, gender, or religion. But sometimes the labels we hold are reasons to celebrate and not words to devalue.
Nobody can go through life with 100% certainty in anything, but if you prepare yourself, just a little bit, you don’t need to be certain, just daring.