Category KW’s Musings

How I Strengthened my Sex Drive

I needed to find a way out. A way to reawaken my much needed libido. I talked to my doctor and he reminded me that the best tool you have is your brain. “Re-wire that”, he said, “and the rest will follow.” I’m glad he’s not a pill pusher, or a man to just brush it off. As it turns out, he was right.

Limiting my Libido

while my mind is full of constant what if’s and why not's, my body needs closeness and intimacy, even pain, using our dynamic and play as a way to relieve the tension. My body is confusing the increase in adrenaline as a preparation for my masochistic desires.

Sacrifice and Service

For each individual, submission, dominance, and service will mean something different. But for each of us the acts that we participate in meet a need that we can not get elsewhere. It’s important to show appreciation for the service we’re given. Sometimes in our relationships, we make sacrifices to meet the needs of our other halves, and those sacrifices should not be taken for granted.